Why Church Unity Matters…Alot!
It has been recently been called to my attention just how much the apostle Paul was focused on the
churches he served being unified in the faith. In fact, it is rare that he ever exhorts the churches to be out
witnessing, which is a common exhortation in today's church, but his teaching on church unity is a
dominant theme in his letters. Now, it is true, truth matters as well, and Paul was not so concerned with
unity that truth was the be nullified in its pursuit; He was not one to make peace with false teachers.
However, Paul understood truth or the growth of knowledge to be something that leads to ever-increasing
unity and not schism and division. This is clear from Ephesians 4:11-13,
“It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some the be evangelists, and some
to be pastors and teachers, to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may
be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become
mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.”
Notice how “unity in the faith” and “the knowledge of the Son of God” are coordinate with one
another. And as the church attains to this unity “the whole measure of the fullness of Christ” is then
expressed through the church's unified and corporate witness. This is indeed a grand vision. What I have
noticed however, is how the reverse tends to be true in our church experience. The more the knowledge
the sharper the differences, and many times with that the sharper the elbows between Christians. The
church divides and subdivides around ever more distinct and detailed understandings of Jesus Christ and
all the doctrines related to Him. But I jump ahead. I will come back next time to some proposals for a
possible way forward while holding to our conscientiously held doctrinal convictions , but for now it is
important for us to understand and embrace God's call for a unified church.
Probably the best place to start with a discussion of unity is a place most people start, and that is
with the Jesus' prayer to the Father for the disciples and all those who would follow them in the future.
Jesus prayed,
“My prayer is not for them alone. I also pray for those who will believe in me through their
message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you”(Jn.17:20,21).
Through this prayer, Jesus reveals a God-centered reason for the church's unity. The church is to
reflect God's unity. Jesus was one with the Father and the Spirit, they share perfect community of love and
mutual service. It is mutual service derived from love that forms the unifying bond for God. Jesus came to
serve the Father's will, the Father served Jesus in working for His glory. The Spirit bore witness to the
mutual love between Father and Son and is love personified. Here is why the church's unity is of such
importance, the church is to be the embodiment or manifestation of God's unity. We might say a corporate
image of God. Believers are to be one, just as the Father and Son are one. This is why the unity of the
church is a key witness that the Father sent the Son. Again, Jesus prayed,
“May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved
them even as you have loved me”(17:23).
The church in unity bears witness to God. Verse 23 also reveals that the church's love shows that
believers have been brought into God's unity, or fellowship with God. And just as God as a triune Being is
a God of love which results in mutual service so is the church to be characterized by love and mutual
service. This is to be central aspect to bearing witness to who God is. This helps us to see why this was so
important for the apostle Paul. This focus is reflected clearly in his letter to the church in Ephesus. In this
letter, the first three chapters focus on what God has done for His people. When we come to chapter 4,
Paul shifts the focus from what God has done for us to our mandate as His people. The emphasis here on
to the end is how we are to live in light of God's work on our behalf. Notice the very first thing Paul
focuses on,
“As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep
the unity of the Spirit, through the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit - just as you were
called to one hope when you were called - one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all,
who is over all and through all and in all”(Eph.4:1-6).
Notice here how Paul exhorts behaviors that create peace with others in the church. He exhorts
humility, gentleness, patience, and these are the ways in which we are able to “bear with one another in
love.” Paul is a realist. He knows that differences between people will create tense and difficult situations
and relationships that must be borne with. He exhorts the church to take on relational attitudes and ways
of being that preserve unity and create “bonds of peace.” It is interesting to note, that Jesus, who is the
Son of God, who described Himself as “gentle and humble at heart” and for this reason with him we can
find “rest for our souls”(Matt.11:28,29). Likewise, the church is to strive to be a place where humans can
find relational rest and peace. It is not to be a place where there is contention, and bickering and gossip
and selfish ambition that creates animosity. Just as in God none of those things exist. God is a relational
paradise. The church is to seek to emulate that, to be a relational paradise where people can find rest as a
witness to God.
Despite what is stated above, someone will think, “Yes, and that is precisely why I don't belong to
a church, because it is not the relational paradise it is supposed to be.” What must be emphasized is that
this objection entirely misses the point. Paul fully recognized the reality of the human situation. He
knows sin is alive and well and the peace that God calls us to, with each other, will not be passively
realized. This is why Ephesians 4:1-6 needed to be written and then read over and over again. These are
things we are to strive for and fight for, because bearing with others will not come naturally. In fact, the
bitter fruit of contention and strife is what comes naturally to us all. We naturally, according to our sinful
nature, want to take offense and get away from others when we feel slighted or in any way uncomfortable.
We must not let the weeds take over the garden. Just as persistently as the crab grass sprouts up, from
morning to morning, it must be rooted out so the good fruit of peace can grow. The tragic irony is the
person leaves the church because there are people there who must be borne with! This is like the gardner
who sees the weeds and drops the hoe and walks away. It is the leaving that reveals, pride, impatience
and intolerance which breaks the bonds of peace in separation. Paul knew full well that loving the
brotherhood of believers would be a cross-bearing service to others, just as others loving him would be a
service to him. The church is the first place where the cross is to be borne. Jesus died for us so that we
would die for our brothers and sisters in Christ.
“Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if
you do what I command...This is my command: Love each other”(John 15:13,14,17).
So we are to love each other by laying down our lives, by giving up petty preferences, by being
willing to associate with all kinds of people. In this age, this means forgiving one another, and at times
mercifully confronting(rather than back-biting) one another so we can forgive and maintain the “bond of
peace.” This is how we manifest the relational paradise of God, while sin is in the world and in our hearts.
We don't give up on the garden because of weeds, and we don't give up on each other and cut each other
off. Just as a good friend or a spouse will see us at our best and worst and still maintain the relationship,
so we are to do that for each other. In that way we are a relational resting place. Through this we reflect
who God is for us as our merciful Lord. We show forth God's humility, patience, gentleness, mercy and
compassion as we exhibit those things for one another. And this may be why Paul talked about those
things alot more than he talked about talking to others about Jesus. Talk can be cheap, but the reality that
God brings about through His gospel is priceless, and enables the talk to mean something. As he said, “the
kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power”(1 Cor.4:20). The gospel is not just to be spoken but
embodied by the Body of Christ. This is why church unity matters...alot.